5 THINGS WHICH SHOWS HOW TO BECOME A MAN OF VALUE
Being a Male is a matter of birth but being a Real man is a matter of choice. By real man, we do not mean muscularity or
anger or something cruel. A real man comes with some exceptional personality traits, if you’re not having those traits then develop one because sooner or later they are going to help you in every aspect of your life.
Being a man, our individuality is divided into 3 categories A Boy, A man, A gentleman and there is a line between these three individuals, firstly we need to understand that line after that we can proceed further.
With same senses, same skin, same place to live, how can these same humans categorized into a different one??
just because of one thing DIFFERENT HABITS, DIFFERENT THOUGHT PROCESS, DIFFERENT WAY OF VIEWING THE LIFE.
In this article, I am going to explain how you can change yourself from a boy to a Real man
Here are 5 personality traits every man should acquire to lead a respectful life: –
1) BECOME A MAN OF VALUE
Someone once said ‘’ Don’t become a man of words. Become a man of Value’’
Becoming a man of value is much more important than becoming the man of words
now you must be Thinking what is the meaning of man of value? what value really is?
value is qualities that a person is having which differentiate him from the rest of the world
VALUE is just not a 5 letter word, it Denotes 5 important things: –
View – your view of viewing the things should be different, You should be positive in every aspect of life “if a glass is half empty, the pessimist will think that it is half empty and is of no use but an optimistic person will have a different view, his optimism will say that the glass is half filled with water and half filled with air”. This approach will make a fine line between these two persons.
Attitude – It all depend upon your attitude towards the life, you don’t make your life, your attitude makes your life. Acquire a different attitude, a positive attitude that will make you different.
Loyalty – In today’s world Loyalty is not an easy thing, Be Loyal towards Your work, Your Family, Your love and you’ll start finding changes in your life.
Urge – Develop an urge for doing the things, ”You can and you will” there is no in between.
Ego – “Kill your ego or your ego will kill you”. Let go your ego because you’ll lose everything because of that. As an example, Ravana was a great man but what let him down was his extreme ego.
“The realest people don’t have a lot of friends” -Tupac.
A real man always knows how to prioritize the things, if you develop this feature than I must say you are doing great in your life. One day we’ll come to a point in our life when we have to take decisions, and we’ve to choose between “Joy with friends or a stable outstanding career”, that major decision will change your life.
By defining priorities, you’ll have to sacrifice your friends, your family, your love but at the end of the day, it’ll be worth.
Your real friends will understand your effort and family will always support you, and your fake or materialistic friends will leave you during this interval, but let them go, because if they can’t support you during your hard times then there is no need of having such friends.
3) RESPECT EVERYONE
People often say that “Real man respect women” but according to me this statement is not true, A Real man respects everyone, by everyone mean family, friends, neighbors, women etc for him everybody is equal and if you give respect than automatically it’ll come back to you. So start respecting everyone, don’t differentiate among people that thing will make you different from the crowd.
4) FEARLESS WORK MORE
If you’re doing right then you shouldn’t fear anything, focus on your work and fear nothing, everything will come up in your way. A real man fears nothing and accepts everything, so start accepting the things in your life and focus on your goals and lead a better life.
Last but not the least, A most important trait of a real man is his consistency towards everything consistency towards work, family, love, and everything. A real man never makes false COMMITMENTS, if he knows he is being able to do this thing then only he make the commitment towards it, and once the commitment is being done then it’s BEING DONE, no matter how hard the situation may get.
THE CONSISTENCY, THE BEHAVIOUR, THE HABITS, THE HARDWORK, THE PATIENCE, THE CALMNESS will change a normal person into a real person.