Loved someone so much? Did they mean everything to you? But things changed as time comes along…I hope this has happened with almost every human being alive. Now all you feel is helplessness…surrounded by memories, moments and every possible thing that gives you happiness about that person.Now you’re a type of person who literally feels that there is no happiness in the world and now you are alone in the crowd like a spotlight pointed at the saddest guy among the happiest crowd.
WHATS EXACTLY IS MAKING THE DIFFERENCE IN YOUR LIFE?
YOU WERE THE TYPE OF PERSON WHO THROWS THE PARTY EVEN AT SMALLER
EVENTS BUT NOW YOU ARE NOT EXCITED EVEN AT YOUR OWN BIRTHDAY..WHY?
Do you really believe that you are so attached to someone that you’re losing yourself now because of that person?
Is this the purpose of your life? OK, let’s help you out to get over these things.
Here are the 5 ways to which you can literally feel good about yourself.
1. SUCCESS IS THE MASSIVE REVENGE
You almost did everything for that someone special but in the end that someone special doesn’t come up to your expectations and broken you every single time but still you were a believer that one-day things you want might come true..but every time you end up with needless compromises, unwanted sacrifices, and stress. My friend! Believe me, you did your best, you almost gave your 100% efforts, but still, you were not able to make it through the priority list.
Now all you want is a massive success, a lavish lifestyle…become a the person that everybody dreams to be with surround you with confident and vibrant people. The day you start changing yourself, everything will come up in your way and SUCCESS are THE MASSIVE REVENGE. Sometimes your feelings don’t tell you, but your car does. All you want to do is to create a lifestyle that everybody dreams of, and surely one day the things will go another way round…your success will overcome your love. There is a lot more to do in our life so be patient and believe in your self and LOVE THE PROCESS!
2. MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY
Yes, you heard that right..if you can make yourself happy, then you can make everyone else happy. Start loving yourself, Fall in love with yourself. Start feeling good about yourself, Always think what they really missed in their life by rejecting you.
Take yourself out for a movie, go for a dinner..Buy yourself new Clothes..Look Good, feel good, hit a gym..Get yourself engaged in so much of things that you don’t have time for thinking about that past, Adopt a hobby, Learn guitar or anything which you always dreamed of, Show the world a changed and happy you. Seeing someone happy is the best thing which can kill someone. Keep your graph raised all the time and felt good about yourself because life is too short to live someone else life..so starts living your life for you and your family.
3. GATHER WITH YOUR OLD FRIENDS
Do you remember the days when you were out of all this relationship stuff? The days with old friends your chuddy buddies.
Time to live that life again..call all your loved friends and go for a trip, live those memories once again, keep doing bakchodis because in the end all you remember is those bakchodis with your BC friends, those unplanned events, those out of money issues, those jugaads, that one beer and 4 friends, those giggles. Go on a trip, snap everything, make a bachelor trip and relive the memories. That will surely make you happy and the other one jealous 😀
4. BE POSITIVE
The positive attitude is the key to overcoming anything in this world; you should have a very positive attitude towards life, adopt a habit of reading, In the start, it seems to be a little tricky but as the time goes on you’ll get used to it. Start reading positive attitude books and start following them in your real life..you’ll find a positive change in your life and you’ll start finding solutions to every possible problem that exist in your life in a right way.
5. FAMILY TIME
Your partner may leave you, but your family will never leave you, The time you invested in your relationship, give only half of that time to your family, and you’ll feel what you have really missed by not giving the time to your family previously. Buy some gift for your mother and father, even if it is a small gift, it will make them become euphoric, and that feeling will literally give you an intense joy.They give you life, they took care of you from the beginning of your life and still caring for you, Now it’s your duty, change your priority list, Family always comes first. Take your mother out for a movie, take her out for a dinner, spend your valuable time with your parents, brothers and sisters, because in the end family matters the most.
So by adopting these few steps, you’ll start finding a change in your life, and you’ll overcome all the stress and difficulties that are creating trouble in your life 🙂